same as it ever was

teed off:  a golf shot i can finally use!  funny thing...it was made during a wedding shoot!

teed off: a golf shot i can finally use! funny thing...it was made during a wedding shoot!

i wanted to get this blog post finished sooner, but the truth is, i’m pretty beat down… friday’s physical therapy session was the full meal deal and it blessed me with a weekend full of soreness. actually the last few weeks have been pretty rough. let’s just say that there are certain processes we become used to on a day-to-day basis until you find yourself unable to perform those without help. as my body staggers back towards normal operations the process of relearning those activities throws challenges in front of me every step of the way. these challenges have to be overcome obviously, but the cost is often high.

anyhow, unless you live under…like, a lot of rocks you know that on friday tiger woods prostrated himself before the cult of personality. his statement and the unending media coverage of it reminded me of a post my friend doyle put on my facebook page not too long ago regarding a quote from general george s. patton. i have a few patton- isms i’m fond of myself, my favorite being “a good plan violently executed now is better than a perfect plan executed next week.

how am i making a connection between tiger woods and george patton? bear with me here, there is one. no, tiger did not publicly slap his caddie. rather, it has to do with how the media creates heroes and villains and how we swallow them hook, line and sinker. i think most americans, unless totally ignorant of world war ii history, would name patton as one of the great heroes of that conflict. however, should you ask a world war ii historian about it, they would tell you the legend is far greater than the man. they would probably tell you in fact, that the allied victory in world war ii had much less to do with patton’s heroics and much more to do with eisenhower’s role as history’s greatest project manager. in fact, people who know much more about this stuff than i will ever forget have told me that patton wasn’t actually a very successful general in the strict military sense, and not a very nice guy either.

he was however a hero to the people of luxembourg, where he was buried…separately from 5075 other american heroes interred at the american military cemetery there. specifically, his grave is at the front of the cemetery, facing all of the others. and, there is some controversy regarding how, among 122,000 other soldiers buried in american military cemeteries, patton is the only one to have ever been granted this special courtesy.

think for yourself: hero or not? you should decide.

the fact is that patton was a complex man, and complex men are often misunderstood. what’s certain is that he was given to making controversial statements, often even sounding like a racist or an anti-semite, and modern press pundits would have had a field day with him, much like they are attempting to do with tiger woods. tiger however, has shut them down with his moratorium on questions. i had to laugh as the outrage poured from the high priests of the cult, who made it sound as if tiger is setting himself above everyone by taking that position. the more they wail the more it sounds as if it is they who think they run the show around here and in fact are just pissed that tiger won’t give them the story they feel they have a right to. tiger has clearly been a bad cat, but how he deals with it should be strictly between he and his family. i’m proud of him for stiff-arming the press, and maybe by sending the message to the media that they can’t tell him what to say, there’s also a lesson in there for all of us about not letting the media tell us what to think.

oh, here’s one more connection… patton died as a result of injuries sustained in an automobile accident. his spine was broken and he was paralyzed from the neck down. if you want to see more images from the cemetery and luxembourg, go here and here.

February 22, 2010 - 2:17 pm

brian croft - interesting about patton… and so true about the media/perception.
aside from his obvious family and role model faux paux, it irritates me off how many have become stone throwers at tiger while the media EXPECTs him to feel some requirement to bow down beyond what he recently did.

February 22, 2010 - 3:12 pm

Jimmy Allison - And I’ll bet most Americans know more about Tiger than they ever will about George Patton.

February 22, 2010 - 6:59 pm

Mark Bumgarner - hey lad glad to see your post. have to say i didn’t know that about patton. interesting. hope you are just tired and no illnesses. i think i am on my 12th cold of the year so i’m sucking up all the cold germs for everyone. keep up the good fight.

February 23, 2010 - 2:40 pm

jj welch - carrie and i keep laughing and how the media has been behaving regarding tiger woods. so the dude succumbed to temptation most of us will never face. i am not sure i could slam him for that since it’s a situation i will never find myself in – famous, best in the world, rich beyond belief, and pretty good looking to boot. i exercise my mini boycotts by changing the channel so something better. As for patton, clearly he is someone i need to read more about.

February 25, 2010 - 7:05 am

carol - screw tiger. i’m sick of the same ol’ story of guys who just can’t keep it in their pants. extreme temptation or not. boo-who. we watched the oprah show with the john edwards scapegoat last night. boo-who for him too. dare i assume patton couldn’t keep it in his pants either? i’m sure he was more highly entitled though, right? being at war and all… what i am sure is same as it ever was: my love for luxembourg and my longing to return…and, my love for will and my longing for him to heal and go with me.

February 25, 2010 - 10:11 am

Boyce Williams - I never cared for Tiger because of his behavior on the course in front of the cameras. Did you ever see one of the greats (Nicklaus, Trevino, Player, Stewart, Crenshaw…) slam a club into the ground and curse? Let’s idolize a talented guy who throws tantrums like a 3 year old. No thanks. His private actions just make it worse.
I do admire Patton. MacArthur called Ike the best clerk I ever had. Perfect for a project manager. Patton was tactics never strategy. He believed in hitting hard and fast because if you gave the enemy a breather it would cost more. He knew that blood was the only cost that counted and tried to minimize casualties. Like any other General his plans didn’t always work, but nobody ever accused him of not caring. As for the slapping incidents, in that time you were supposed to hide your fear and suck it up. Few understood psycological problems from combat. If you think about it we had fewer problems with the unknown PTSD from WWII than we do now. Could we be creating an excuse for bad behavior? Seems a common trend from the left, it’s always someone/something elses fault.

February 25, 2010 - 10:43 am

tracey - I second what Carol said. Isn’t it a bit hypocritical that Tiger uses the media for his public apology, but won’t answer their questions? You can’t have it both ways, Tiger. I agree that how Tiger deals with this should be between him and his family. In other words, keep the apologies off camera.

February 26, 2010 - 11:22 am

Qiana - I agree. Carol and Trace!! Man and the apology was horrible. I mean, my niece could have done better than that! Man….

March 1, 2010 - 9:09 am

Jonie - Thanks for the blog post, Will. Really good to hear from you. You’re so right about the media. There’s good and bad in everyone — to idolize invites disappointment. To idolize pundits and politicians is downright reckless. You and Carol take care… We’re all pullin’ for ya.

March 5, 2010 - 9:48 pm

sandra d - carol, you are AWESOME! Love the post

March 17, 2010 - 9:58 am

jimbo - I heard Tiger is changing his name to get out of the media spot light and better reflect how he feels about what he did. His new name is going to be Mourning Woods!

March 17, 2010 - 10:04 am

jimbo - Patton did have a lasting legacy on the US army (armed forces) that can be felt till this day. Can anyone say “Shock and Awe” campaign and then follow that up with “no exit stategy to speak of”.

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